Reframing

I've had some interesting discussions with various people lately about how we get described and how we would describe ourselves. At times, I've had words thrown at me that were meant to be an insult and I've readily and happily taken them on with my response of "yes, yes I am!"

Now I'm not saying that these below all apply to me. 

Negative                            Positive

aggressive                         assertive

stubborn                            determined/willful

aloof/stand-off-ish              independent

impulsive                           spontaneous

lazy                                  knows how to relax/take things easy

pedantic                            relaxed

hedonist                            knows how to enjoy life

cheap-skate                       thrifty

bossy                                good leader

easily distracted                 open to new ideas

messy                               eclectic design sense

glutton                              gourmand

I'd love to add to the list